Why do we get so attached to being pissed with people? So pleased that something is going to jar us for the rest of our days?
How often have you heard people say…
‘I won’t ever speak to him again’.
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Laters haters
‘I can’t even think about her without wanting to tear my hair out’.
‘I think about that idiot every day, I’ll never get over what he did to me’.
Ultimately, no matter how badly we’ve been insulted, offended or mistreated, taking solace in the fact will just prolong the misery.
But there can be a strange pleasure in holding a grudge – somehow it gives us a feeling that they we are fighting back, not taking things lying down.
Fine, but what do we actually stand to gain from it?
If we’re strong enough, thick skinned enough or got other cool stuff of our own going on to not let it bother us, we let it go, move on and perhaps even get some benefit from the situation.
Like handing in a crucial report or finishing a big presentation, letting go of past angers or festering ill takes a weight off your mind, leaving you free to focus and concentrate on getting the positive stuff done.
Plus you never burn your bridges – the idiot who offended you yesterday maybe the guy who offers you a major opportunity tomorrow…so long as you’re still speaking to him.
How often have you heard people say…
‘I won’t ever speak to him again’.
Go From Hater To Good Vibes Creator In 5 Minutes
Laters haters
‘I can’t even think about her without wanting to tear my hair out’.
‘I think about that idiot every day, I’ll never get over what he did to me’.
Ultimately, no matter how badly we’ve been insulted, offended or mistreated, taking solace in the fact will just prolong the misery.
But there can be a strange pleasure in holding a grudge – somehow it gives us a feeling that they we are fighting back, not taking things lying down.
Fine, but what do we actually stand to gain from it?
If we’re strong enough, thick skinned enough or got other cool stuff of our own going on to not let it bother us, we let it go, move on and perhaps even get some benefit from the situation.
Like handing in a crucial report or finishing a big presentation, letting go of past angers or festering ill takes a weight off your mind, leaving you free to focus and concentrate on getting the positive stuff done.
Plus you never burn your bridges – the idiot who offended you yesterday maybe the guy who offers you a major opportunity tomorrow…so long as you’re still speaking to him.
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